How can I get my boyfriend to go down on me?
January 20, 2008
I've been going out with my boyfriend for a short time. He is really the first guy I have had sexual contact with. We don't fuck too much. I enjoying giving him a blowjob and he knows it. The problem is I can't seem to get him to give me one. I don't mind doing it but I'd like the enjoyment of one as well. How can I get him to give me head as well. Also on that note I noticed after the second time that I gave him head that I got a sore throat. He didn't cum in my mouth and I don't think there was precum. Any ideas?
Have you ever asked him to suck you off? And if he said no, have you ever asked him why not? If he isn't willing to go down on you, there is certainly a reason why. Maybe he's scared of giving oral sex. Maybe he doesn't like the idea of STDs. He may simply not like going down on guys. Or perhaps you don't shower often enough and have a major personal hygiene problem. I have no way of knowing for sure, so next time you guys are cuddling in bed, ask him.
As for the sore throat, while it is true that sore throats can be a sign of oral gonorrhea, they can also easily be caused by irritating the back of your throat as you aggressively suck on someone. As long as your sore throat cleared up in a few days and didn't repeatedly reoccur, then I wouldn't worry about it. Just go easy on your tonsils next time you're in the mood for cum-guzzling.
As for the sore throat, while it is true that sore throats can be a sign of oral gonorrhea, they can also easily be caused by irritating the back of your throat as you aggressively suck on someone. As long as your sore throat cleared up in a few days and didn't repeatedly reoccur, then I wouldn't worry about it. Just go easy on your tonsils next time you're in the mood for cum-guzzling.
