Why am I having troubles cumming inside my partner?
January 20, 2008
I am a 56 year-old top guy with a cute 35 year-old fuck buddy who is my bottom. During sex my buddy likes the sensation of my sperm shooting inside him, even with a condom. That's the problem. I rarely orgasm just with my cock in his butt, even though I can do so with some other guys. Could it be to do with my buddy's texture or dimensions? His butt feels best to me at the entrance but he likes me right inside. I'd like to please him more. I usually fuck with a cockring because I like to be really hard. Could this have an effect?
Cockrings do not typically make it more difficult to cum, but it certainly would be worth a try fucking him without one. Your problem is more likely caused by logistical reasons. For example, he may be taller than you like when you bone him on his hands and knees. Try modifying your positions slightly to see if that changes anything, too.
More than those ideas though, your issue of where in his ass to fuck him as a great deal to do with the issue as well. He likes it when you plunge deep inside him, but as you said you prefer sliding your dickhead in and out of his ass. It’s fine to bang him the way he wants to be fucked, but then he shouldn’t complain when you have trouble cumming inside him. Your studboy needs to make a decision: does he value being fucked deep more than having you blow inside him? He’ll probably say he wants both. That’s fine, in which case he is going to have to let you spend more time just sliding in and out of his ass. Obviously you can’t cum the way you’re doing right now, after all.
More than those ideas though, your issue of where in his ass to fuck him as a great deal to do with the issue as well. He likes it when you plunge deep inside him, but as you said you prefer sliding your dickhead in and out of his ass. It’s fine to bang him the way he wants to be fucked, but then he shouldn’t complain when you have trouble cumming inside him. Your studboy needs to make a decision: does he value being fucked deep more than having you blow inside him? He’ll probably say he wants both. That’s fine, in which case he is going to have to let you spend more time just sliding in and out of his ass. Obviously you can’t cum the way you’re doing right now, after all.
