How can I cum more quickly?

January 20, 2008
I have been dating my boyfriend for about two months now. He loves when I fuck him, but there is one problem. I can go for hours without cumming. He can't hold it back that long, plus he gets kinda sore. I have always had this problem. It takes me forever even when I jerk off. I really don't know what to do. I always needing up jerking off while he watches. Is there any suggestions for this?—Anonymous
Like you, I can fuck for hours without cumming. My record is fucking someone for 2 1/2 hours before he finally said he was satisfied and asked for a break. Alas, such a blessing of stamina like ours comes with a price. We can't always cum when we want to, and our partners usually cum before we do.

The secret to this is twofold. First, understand that it's not bad if you masturbate yourself to orgasm. He can play with your nipples, lick your balls, stick his tongue down your throat, or do whatever sorts of things that you enjoy. When you're jacking yourself off, it's your turn for pleasure. So don't be afraid to give him instructions how to help you out.

Second, when you go to fuck him, don't start from zero. Play with yourself first and get yourself really hot and bothered. You, like me, take a lot of extra foreplay to get us really revved up and ready to cum. If you start fucking when you're a lot closer to orgasm, you'll have an easier time of cumming. Don't forget that you can always pull out and jack off in the middle of your fucking session. He'll beg you to slam it back in. Tease his ass with your fingers, and when your cock is twitching and nearing blowing it's load, then climb back inside and give him a ramming he's not going to forget.—Aaron Lawrence

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