What is the best enema on the market?
January 20, 2008
I like rimming a lot, but want the guy to be clean. What are the best male douches on the market?
Quick lesson. Women use douches in their vaginas. Men and women use enemas in their anus. Although you are right, some guys say "douche" as slang for "enema." On the market, there are two primary types of enemas available: phospho-soda enemas and mineral oil enemas. There are a number of other enemas that are performed, such as castille soap enemas, epsom salt enemas, lemon juice enemas, and I'm not kidding, coffee enemas. Those are generally homemade enemas though, and are not ones you will need to be concerned with. (For recipes on those, check out EnemaTips.com.)
Mineral Oil enemas are use primarily as a laxative. Since the oil will also coat the inside of their rectum for a while, they are definitely not safe to use when you may be fucking the person. The oil is likely to be difficult to wash from their skin in any case, so they should probably be avoided. Phospho-soda enemas (so named because they contain mono- and dibasic Sodium Phosphate) are what you are thinking of when you discussing disposable enemas. They increase your body's retention of water, promoting natural bowel movements. Not to mention they wash out smaller bits of fecal matter.
Now onto your question. There really isn't a lot of variety when it comes to disposable phospho-soda enemas (hereafter referred to as just enemas). They use virtually the same formula. Most of the difference is in the container - some have lubricated tips, some are latex-free, and so on. Realistically, it doesn't matter which brand you buy.
What does matter is how you use an enema. If your partner uses a disposable enema, some of that fluid is going to go higher up into his colon. When he "evacuates" the fluid from his body, not all of that fluid will immediately come out. Indeed, in some people it may wind up coming out later with large amounts of dissolved fecal matter in it. In other words, a seriously disgusting mess.
The solution to this is to limit the amount of fluid which you use during your enema. When preparing for sex, you don't have to give yourself a high colonic! Just a little bit of fluid flushed into the rectum can work wonders. An ear syringe filled with warm water (about 102 degrees is ideal) may work just as well or better than the fleet enema. After all, you're trying to clean yourself up for sex, not prepare yourself for surgery!
When your partner cleans himself for you to rim him, enemas become even less important. An ear syringe of water to clean himself out should be more than enough. What is more important is that he use soap and water to wash his anus thoroughly. Fingering inside the hole to wash the sides of the sphincter is also important. Once that is done and rinsed off, his ass should be clean enough to eat off. Or lick off, as the case may be.
Mineral Oil enemas are use primarily as a laxative. Since the oil will also coat the inside of their rectum for a while, they are definitely not safe to use when you may be fucking the person. The oil is likely to be difficult to wash from their skin in any case, so they should probably be avoided. Phospho-soda enemas (so named because they contain mono- and dibasic Sodium Phosphate) are what you are thinking of when you discussing disposable enemas. They increase your body's retention of water, promoting natural bowel movements. Not to mention they wash out smaller bits of fecal matter.
Now onto your question. There really isn't a lot of variety when it comes to disposable phospho-soda enemas (hereafter referred to as just enemas). They use virtually the same formula. Most of the difference is in the container - some have lubricated tips, some are latex-free, and so on. Realistically, it doesn't matter which brand you buy.
What does matter is how you use an enema. If your partner uses a disposable enema, some of that fluid is going to go higher up into his colon. When he "evacuates" the fluid from his body, not all of that fluid will immediately come out. Indeed, in some people it may wind up coming out later with large amounts of dissolved fecal matter in it. In other words, a seriously disgusting mess.
The solution to this is to limit the amount of fluid which you use during your enema. When preparing for sex, you don't have to give yourself a high colonic! Just a little bit of fluid flushed into the rectum can work wonders. An ear syringe filled with warm water (about 102 degrees is ideal) may work just as well or better than the fleet enema. After all, you're trying to clean yourself up for sex, not prepare yourself for surgery!
When your partner cleans himself for you to rim him, enemas become even less important. An ear syringe of water to clean himself out should be more than enough. What is more important is that he use soap and water to wash his anus thoroughly. Fingering inside the hole to wash the sides of the sphincter is also important. Once that is done and rinsed off, his ass should be clean enough to eat off. Or lick off, as the case may be.
Comment by Anonymous on January 20, 2008
Aaron your response about douching being a term for women washing out their vaginas is really not correct. Douche simply means wash. So it is correct for a guy or a girl to use the term douche for washing out their rectum instead of enema. It is just not the medically approved terminology. Don't Americanize the term douche to be something women (but not men) do to themselves. It is also a way of saying to shower in French.