Is it okay that I'm fooling around with my swim team?
January 19, 2008
I am a member of the swimming varsity team. After practices (not always), my friends from the team and I do group jerks-offs in the shower room. I have about a 10-inch penis and the guys usually joke about playing with my stick. I'm not comfortable with totally, but somehow I do enjoy it. It sometimes annoys me that their dicks are about 5 to 6 inches, only one friend has an 8". Should I be bothered by their size? Am I gay because I enjoy it (they enjoy it, too)? Is it okay if we experiment on sucking each other, anal... etc?
Let me get this straight. You have a ten-inch dick, you're having group jackoffs with your varsity swim team, and you're having fun even though it's a bit awkward. If this is true, you're living every gay man's fantasy. I hope you're writing down every detail of what happens. They make porno movies about this sort of thing.
But seriously, you shouldn't remotely be bothered by the difference in dick size. If those measurements are truly accurate (I assume you haven't pulled out a ruler in the middle of one of your sessions), then you indeed to have a big dick. There's nothing wrong with that, just as there's nothing wrong with a seven or five or three-inch dick. Dick sizes are about as important in life as eye color.
As for are you gay? Well, you tell me. A lot of straight guys are exhibitionists and enjoy group jackoffs. Just because you're beating off with them doesn't mean you're gay. But are you attracted to them physically? Do you want to touch them, run your hands on their bodies, and get to know them intimately and completely? Those are much more important questions. As for whether it's okay if you experiment further, that answer is again up to you. It's certainly okay with me, and there is no moral against doing more. But do what your mind and heart (and dick) tell you that you should do. It's certainly okay to experiment further if you want to. But don't feel that you have to.
And feel free to send me an invite next time you guys have swim practice. : )
But seriously, you shouldn't remotely be bothered by the difference in dick size. If those measurements are truly accurate (I assume you haven't pulled out a ruler in the middle of one of your sessions), then you indeed to have a big dick. There's nothing wrong with that, just as there's nothing wrong with a seven or five or three-inch dick. Dick sizes are about as important in life as eye color.
As for are you gay? Well, you tell me. A lot of straight guys are exhibitionists and enjoy group jackoffs. Just because you're beating off with them doesn't mean you're gay. But are you attracted to them physically? Do you want to touch them, run your hands on their bodies, and get to know them intimately and completely? Those are much more important questions. As for whether it's okay if you experiment further, that answer is again up to you. It's certainly okay with me, and there is no moral against doing more. But do what your mind and heart (and dick) tell you that you should do. It's certainly okay to experiment further if you want to. But don't feel that you have to.
And feel free to send me an invite next time you guys have swim practice. : )
