How should clients and escorts interact in public?
January 21, 2008
Can you tell me your thoughts on this subject. How do you react if you see one of your clients out socially (say at a party) or out in public (say at a mall)? My opinion is that the customer should make the choice to interact. After all, you as the escort would have no real idea of the confidentiality related the moment. Has this ever happened to you?
I agree with you that clients should have the right to privacy. I would point out that escorts have the same right as well. A client seeing an escort in public wouldn’t necessarily have an idea of escort’s need for confidentiality at that moment either. The same goes for porn stars in public when their fans see them, too.
Escort and porn star Kevin Williams described one incident where a fan gushed praise and asked Kevin for an autograph while Kevin dined at a restaurant with his mother! Obviously this is totally inappropriate. I am fortunate enough to have never had this happen to me, but I have seen my clients in public on a number of occasions, and have been recognized and approached by others dozens of times beyond that.
So back to your question. Clients, escorts, and fans alike need to use their judgement and a bit of common sense. It’s one thing to politely smile or nod at the person, and another to approach them when they are surrounded by a crowd of friends. What is totally inappropriate in one situation may be completely fine in another context.
Escort and porn star Kevin Williams described one incident where a fan gushed praise and asked Kevin for an autograph while Kevin dined at a restaurant with his mother! Obviously this is totally inappropriate. I am fortunate enough to have never had this happen to me, but I have seen my clients in public on a number of occasions, and have been recognized and approached by others dozens of times beyond that.
So back to your question. Clients, escorts, and fans alike need to use their judgement and a bit of common sense. It’s one thing to politely smile or nod at the person, and another to approach them when they are surrounded by a crowd of friends. What is totally inappropriate in one situation may be completely fine in another context.
Comment by Mr. Tinkertrain on January 21, 2008
In the bedroom, you are in control. Out of the bedroom, they are in control. When you see someone who has hired you, they do not exist other then a regular person at the bar. it is up to them whether they will acknowledge you or not. Don’t take it personally... you are a service that they ordered, but you don’t know the situation around the situation. be respectful of people’s situations and let them be. THEY will tell YOU if they want to be acknowledged. If you are a good escort, you can read it on their face within a few seconds.