Any advice for hiring an escort for the first time?
January 21, 2008
How do you recommend hooking up with an escort for the first time?
For starters, search the Internet and print ads until you find an escort that interests you. Although e-mail is convenient, make a point of talking to him on the phone for a few minutes. If he is cold, unhelpful, or otherwise rude, you may save yourself the time and trouble of meeting him. But if you feel comfortable with him on the phone, that is a good indication you will make a good pairing in an appointment.
In regards to what you should do, keep in mind that male escorts in countries where prostitution is illegal often become nervous around people that want to discuss sex. After all, you may be pretty sure from the escort's advertisements that he is not a cop, but the escort doesn't know you at all. Patience and a bit of conversation can often get the escort to open up about his sexual services. But you should make a point of finding out what the escort is willing to do. If you are a top, you would hate to find out in person that the escort does not bottom. The same can be said if you are affectionate and the escort does not like to kiss.
When you finally meet, it is a good idea to set the money down on a table early in the encounter, but not to bring up the issue directly. Some less trusting or novice escorts will demand payment in advance, but most experienced ones will not. Especially if they see the money in plain sight. By avoiding the topic of money, the escort is more assured that you are not an undercover officer.
Other than that, only a few common courtesies apply. Take a shower before your appointment. Call the escort if you have to cancel for any reason. And if you found the escort from an escort review website, submit a review to the site after your meeting.
In regards to what you should do, keep in mind that male escorts in countries where prostitution is illegal often become nervous around people that want to discuss sex. After all, you may be pretty sure from the escort's advertisements that he is not a cop, but the escort doesn't know you at all. Patience and a bit of conversation can often get the escort to open up about his sexual services. But you should make a point of finding out what the escort is willing to do. If you are a top, you would hate to find out in person that the escort does not bottom. The same can be said if you are affectionate and the escort does not like to kiss.
When you finally meet, it is a good idea to set the money down on a table early in the encounter, but not to bring up the issue directly. Some less trusting or novice escorts will demand payment in advance, but most experienced ones will not. Especially if they see the money in plain sight. By avoiding the topic of money, the escort is more assured that you are not an undercover officer.
Other than that, only a few common courtesies apply. Take a shower before your appointment. Call the escort if you have to cancel for any reason. And if you found the escort from an escort review website, submit a review to the site after your meeting.
