Is it safe to suck my partner after he fucks me?

January 21, 2008
I find it very erotic to suck a guy after he fucks me. Is this wrong?—Anonymous
In sex, anything two consenting adults choose to do together is rarely wrong. If you meant medically risky rather than morally wrong, that's another question. You may be surprised to know that it doesn't really matter if he was wearing a condom or not. His dick will have bacteria on it either way. Fortunately, any bacteria that he picks up inside you are already your bacteria, and unless you have a compromised immune system you will not have any new medical problems because of it. Some people may find the idea of going down on someone who just barebacked them to be distasteful, but it's generally not medically dangerous to do. —Aaron Lawrence

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