How can I prepare myself for heavy-duty fucking?
January 21, 2008
My new lover is a definite ass man. He fucks me every single night, and about 3 times a week he fucks me in the morning too. When he isn't fucking me, he's constantly playing with my ass with a large assortment of toys and his fingers. Lately he has been talking about bringing other guys in to fuck me, and he wants me to do double penetrations and work my way up to getting fisted. He has been really good to me and I don't want to lose him, but I'm kind of nervous to get my ass worked on any harder than it already has. Do you have any advice on how I can prepare myself for that much action?
Would that I had your problem!
Seriously, you already know how you can prepare yourself to be fucked. Being double-penetrated or fisted isn't really any different. What I think you are asking is what do I think about your partner's wishes, and what should you do about him going beyond your comfort zone.
So from the start, know that you are totally within your rights to set your own limits. Even if you enjoy being submissive to your partner's sexual wishes, there is nothing wrong with giving him limits as to just how much anal action you are interested in taking. At the very least you should let him know you are hesitant and nervous about going further. Eventually his desire for more anal action for you will reach your physician and mental limits, and he is going to have to deal with that. By no means should you consider going beyond your limitations just to keep him around. That's a bad idea under all circumstances, and you're a lot better off declaring your limits now than doing something you will really regret. There is always plenty of time later to explore further should you change your mind.
Otherwise, the best advice I can give you is to follow the tips in the questions on being fucked by big dicks. Poke around in the Aaron's Advice database and you'll find several questions on that topic.
Seriously, you already know how you can prepare yourself to be fucked. Being double-penetrated or fisted isn't really any different. What I think you are asking is what do I think about your partner's wishes, and what should you do about him going beyond your comfort zone.
So from the start, know that you are totally within your rights to set your own limits. Even if you enjoy being submissive to your partner's sexual wishes, there is nothing wrong with giving him limits as to just how much anal action you are interested in taking. At the very least you should let him know you are hesitant and nervous about going further. Eventually his desire for more anal action for you will reach your physician and mental limits, and he is going to have to deal with that. By no means should you consider going beyond your limitations just to keep him around. That's a bad idea under all circumstances, and you're a lot better off declaring your limits now than doing something you will really regret. There is always plenty of time later to explore further should you change your mind.
Otherwise, the best advice I can give you is to follow the tips in the questions on being fucked by big dicks. Poke around in the Aaron's Advice database and you'll find several questions on that topic.
