Should I expect an escort to be able to get hard?
January 21, 2008
Is it fair and/or reasonable to expect an escort to be able to get hard to ultimately fulfill his contract? I don't mean in an hostile environment, but with gay porn to watch and getting accomplished head; isn't an erection the 'sine qua non' or the 'quid pro quo' (or something!) of the escort trade?
Yes, it is very reasonable to expect an escort to get hard. If an escort doesn't get an erection, there is always a reason why. He might be stoned, he might have blown two loads that afternoon with someone else, hey may not be feeling well, or he might be tired or depressed about something in his personal life. Then again the problem might be more situational. He may be new to escorting and be nervous, your style of oral sex may not be what his body responds to, or perhaps the room is too cold. Or maybe you had terrible body odor. I really have no way of knowing just why he didn't have an erection with you that day. If you can't figure out why he isn't hard, ask him why. Don't accuse or get upset, but ask tactfully. It may be as simple as the position you two are using.
Because neither escorts nor clients are inhuman sex machines, both the client's and escort's erections are ultimately the responsibility of both parties. No one would ever expect a client to have an erection if the escort showed up drunk and abusive. Similarly, you can hardly blame the escort for erectile troubles if the client wants to be sucked off while deliberately blowing cigarette smoke in the escort's face. Don't think that's not a realistic example, either. That happened to me once. The client even had the gall to wonder aloud why I couldn't get hard.
Moral of the story? You may have had a good escort who had a valid reason for having trouble staying hard. On the other hand, you may have had a bum who didn't take his work seriously. When faced with a situation like that again, talk to him to determine which category he falls into. If he's a loser of an escort, send him packing and don't waste your time on him again.
Because neither escorts nor clients are inhuman sex machines, both the client's and escort's erections are ultimately the responsibility of both parties. No one would ever expect a client to have an erection if the escort showed up drunk and abusive. Similarly, you can hardly blame the escort for erectile troubles if the client wants to be sucked off while deliberately blowing cigarette smoke in the escort's face. Don't think that's not a realistic example, either. That happened to me once. The client even had the gall to wonder aloud why I couldn't get hard.
Moral of the story? You may have had a good escort who had a valid reason for having trouble staying hard. On the other hand, you may have had a bum who didn't take his work seriously. When faced with a situation like that again, talk to him to determine which category he falls into. If he's a loser of an escort, send him packing and don't waste your time on him again.
