How can I pick up a room full of tops?
January 21, 2008
I am a total bottom and I love to suck dick among other things. I really love public sex and group sex, either in public or in a club. The problem is that there are way too many bottoms fighting over a few tops. Any suggestions? Of course my fantasy is to have no competition in a room full of hot men?
Well, being the only bottom in a room full of hot tops is a bit much to hope for, so concentrate on what you can do to get laid more in a group setting. During public or private anonymous sex, everyone is scoping each other based on their physical appeal, not really any inner qualities they may have. So consider what physical shape you're in. Is your hair neatly cut? Do you have a tan at all, or do you look totally pale? Is your chest/pubic hair trimmed at all, or does it look like an unkempt bush? Putting a little time and effort into looking good will get you laid an awful lot more.
Consider too how people perceive your personality. Obviously you're not getting to know people well in a group setting. They are, however, judging you based on your approach and their first impression of you. If you're grabbing at any man in site, people are going to think you're a completely uninhibited slut. That may or may not be the look you're going for. On the other extreme, if you're a passive wallflower, it's not surprising you're missing out on the action. People need to know you're interested. Since you want to be fucked, make sure you have plenty of condoms and lube handy, too. Many people won't bring up the idea of fucking in public unless you do first.
One more tip. Consider whether you're smiling at all. A smile and a twinkle in your eyes can go a long ways towards seducing guys in anonymous sex. It differentiates you from those guilt-ridden furtive looks that so many people have.
Consider too how people perceive your personality. Obviously you're not getting to know people well in a group setting. They are, however, judging you based on your approach and their first impression of you. If you're grabbing at any man in site, people are going to think you're a completely uninhibited slut. That may or may not be the look you're going for. On the other extreme, if you're a passive wallflower, it's not surprising you're missing out on the action. People need to know you're interested. Since you want to be fucked, make sure you have plenty of condoms and lube handy, too. Many people won't bring up the idea of fucking in public unless you do first.
One more tip. Consider whether you're smiling at all. A smile and a twinkle in your eyes can go a long ways towards seducing guys in anonymous sex. It differentiates you from those guilt-ridden furtive looks that so many people have.
