Does being uncut affect my sensitivity during oral sex?
January 21, 2008
I'm not cut and my foreskin is difficult to roll back when I'm hard. I don't feel that much pleasure when I get sucked. How can I get obtain that sucking pleasure? I tell my partner that the problem is not him; it's me.
My first question to you would be how many guys have ever given you oral sex. And have you ever actually felt and major pleasure from it? If you are relatively inexperienced, you may find that as you have sex with different partners you'll be able to enjoy oral sex more. Some people do give better head than others after all.
It may be situational as well. Some men find they can only cum from oral sex in certain circumstances (such as from glory holes), or in certain positions (standing up, laying on their back, etc.). Others need to have their ass, nipples, or balls played with. Some even need to be engaging in their fetish of choice, such as bondage. It's a sexually very diverse world. Consider what your particular tastes are.
Since you're uncut, you may also find that pulling back your foreskin when receiving oral sex may help. Receiveing oral sex oral from just a mouth is be fun, but a hand and a mouth can make it all the more intense. Your partners may need to hold your cock at a certain angle or hold your foreskin back. Try a bit of experimentation and see how it goes.
Sometimes in men with foreskins they develop little bands of skin between their foreskin and the head of their dick. This results in the inability of the foreskin to fully retract back. If you can pull back your foreskin completely when you are not hard this is not the case. If you believe it may be though, set an appointment with a urologist for an examination. It is a simple thing to have those bands cut to allow your foreskin to retract more completely.
Another trick when you are hard is to pinch the head of your dick and to force the blood out of it. This may allow you to roll the foreskin back. If it becomes uncomfortable when the foreskin is pulled back it may be because the foreskin is too tight. In this case pinch the head again and roll it back. You may want to see a urologist in this case, as your foreskin may be too tight. Your doctor will be able to tell you far more than I after an examination.
Assuming it is a lack of sensitivity on your dick's part rather than any sort of skill issue about your partner(s), then let me welcome you to a group of guys I affectionately call "SWABGOO". That, my friend, stands for "Studs Who Are a Bitch to Get Off from Oral". That includes me, so you're in good company. Outside of glory holes, I have cum, get this, a whopping two times from oral sex. (Both from the same person, too. A truly skilled cocksucker if there was ever one).
If this is the case, then don't tear yourself up over it. We all have our limitations in life. Some people can't be fucked, others can't play top very well. You and I may not be able to cum from oral sex. So let's forget about that. I've learned to absolutely bask in having my balls played with while I jack off. I've had so many intense orgasms from ballplaying that I don't think I would trade for a "normal" dick if I could. Others in our circumstances have learned to be dedicated fuckers/fuckees, expert cocksuckers unto their own right, as well as master a host of other skills. If this is your destiny, then embrace it! Reclaim another act or area of sexuality as your own, and leave being fellated to those who appreciate it more than us.
It may be situational as well. Some men find they can only cum from oral sex in certain circumstances (such as from glory holes), or in certain positions (standing up, laying on their back, etc.). Others need to have their ass, nipples, or balls played with. Some even need to be engaging in their fetish of choice, such as bondage. It's a sexually very diverse world. Consider what your particular tastes are.
Since you're uncut, you may also find that pulling back your foreskin when receiving oral sex may help. Receiveing oral sex oral from just a mouth is be fun, but a hand and a mouth can make it all the more intense. Your partners may need to hold your cock at a certain angle or hold your foreskin back. Try a bit of experimentation and see how it goes.
Sometimes in men with foreskins they develop little bands of skin between their foreskin and the head of their dick. This results in the inability of the foreskin to fully retract back. If you can pull back your foreskin completely when you are not hard this is not the case. If you believe it may be though, set an appointment with a urologist for an examination. It is a simple thing to have those bands cut to allow your foreskin to retract more completely.
Another trick when you are hard is to pinch the head of your dick and to force the blood out of it. This may allow you to roll the foreskin back. If it becomes uncomfortable when the foreskin is pulled back it may be because the foreskin is too tight. In this case pinch the head again and roll it back. You may want to see a urologist in this case, as your foreskin may be too tight. Your doctor will be able to tell you far more than I after an examination.
Assuming it is a lack of sensitivity on your dick's part rather than any sort of skill issue about your partner(s), then let me welcome you to a group of guys I affectionately call "SWABGOO". That, my friend, stands for "Studs Who Are a Bitch to Get Off from Oral". That includes me, so you're in good company. Outside of glory holes, I have cum, get this, a whopping two times from oral sex. (Both from the same person, too. A truly skilled cocksucker if there was ever one).
If this is the case, then don't tear yourself up over it. We all have our limitations in life. Some people can't be fucked, others can't play top very well. You and I may not be able to cum from oral sex. So let's forget about that. I've learned to absolutely bask in having my balls played with while I jack off. I've had so many intense orgasms from ballplaying that I don't think I would trade for a "normal" dick if I could. Others in our circumstances have learned to be dedicated fuckers/fuckees, expert cocksuckers unto their own right, as well as master a host of other skills. If this is your destiny, then embrace it! Reclaim another act or area of sexuality as your own, and leave being fellated to those who appreciate it more than us.
