Does this guy want to have sex with me?
January 21, 2008
I have a new friend that I met casually one day driving on the street. He caught my attention because he has extreme sex appeal. In fact, I am quite certain that he was licking his lips when I was originally watching him cross the street in front of my car. He took my number as a friend to hang out another time but never called.
Weeks later we saw each other again and he got in my car and acted like we were friends with a full conversation. That was two months ago and since then we have spoken and hung out several times (casually). I am aware that he has a girlfriend and a voracious sexual appetite that seems to always be the focus of our conversations. We have spoken of gay interludes which he claimed (at the time) to not have any interest in, but again, the signals FEEL differently.
My problem is discerning whether or not he would like to have a little fun or if he is not into it for real. Because of my closeted situation, and my suspicion of his as well, it is difficult to reveal my intentions so boldly. I continue to get the "vibe" from him, but I am not 100% certain. When he talks to me, I get so excited because of his obvious sex appeal that I act like a teen making the stupidest blunders. Any advice?
Weeks later we saw each other again and he got in my car and acted like we were friends with a full conversation. That was two months ago and since then we have spoken and hung out several times (casually). I am aware that he has a girlfriend and a voracious sexual appetite that seems to always be the focus of our conversations. We have spoken of gay interludes which he claimed (at the time) to not have any interest in, but again, the signals FEEL differently.
My problem is discerning whether or not he would like to have a little fun or if he is not into it for real. Because of my closeted situation, and my suspicion of his as well, it is difficult to reveal my intentions so boldly. I continue to get the "vibe" from him, but I am not 100% certain. When he talks to me, I get so excited because of his obvious sex appeal that I act like a teen making the stupidest blunders. Any advice?
Okay, I think I understand. You're lusting after a guy who keeps talking about his girlfriend, his major sex drive, and how he's not gay. You think you're getting major signals from him, but those may be just your own fantasies talking.
May I suggest, why not invite him over to your place, give him a few beers, pop on a straight porn tape with good looking guys, and get his hormones out of control? Once he's rubbing his crotch and talking about how he'd really like a good blowjob, you can "confess" that a guy gave you a blowjob once, and that it was even better than a girl's. Get him intrigued enough, and he may even be willing to trade blowjobs with you. Or at the very least let you blow him. It's a corny way to seduce a straight guy, but it's one of the most effective. Just don't expect him to spend the night.
May I suggest, why not invite him over to your place, give him a few beers, pop on a straight porn tape with good looking guys, and get his hormones out of control? Once he's rubbing his crotch and talking about how he'd really like a good blowjob, you can "confess" that a guy gave you a blowjob once, and that it was even better than a girl's. Get him intrigued enough, and he may even be willing to trade blowjobs with you. Or at the very least let you blow him. It's a corny way to seduce a straight guy, but it's one of the most effective. Just don't expect him to spend the night.
