Is it normal that being rimmed does nothing for me?
January 21, 2008
My boyfriend loves to rim me and loves me to be the bottom during sex, but neither give me any satisfaction. I don't really get any sensation at all. When I rim him he goes nuts. I feel bad so I act like it does something for me, but it doesn't. Is there something wrong with me?
Nope, not in the slightest. With six billion people in this world, you have to expect there is going to be some diversity as to what makes our bodies writhe with pleasure. Some people's nipples are sensitive, some people enjoy their balls being played with, some people love having oral sex on them, and others prefer being rimmed. Learn what your body likes, and have him do that to you.
Of course, since he enjoys rimming there is no reason for him to stop doing that. Get up on your knees from time to time and let him rim for his mental pleasure. Just make sure that in the scheme of things he understands what you prefer. It's no fun if sex is always on someone else's terms and never a compromise of what you both like.
Of course, since he enjoys rimming there is no reason for him to stop doing that. Get up on your knees from time to time and let him rim for his mental pleasure. Just make sure that in the scheme of things he understands what you prefer. It's no fun if sex is always on someone else's terms and never a compromise of what you both like.
