How does one "deep throat" a big dick?
January 21, 2008
Would you tell me in detail how to "deep throat?" I don't seem to be able to master it. Have the desire, breath through the nose, but just can't seem to take it all the way to the base, though I can take a lot.
If you want to know how to deep throat, think of a sword-swallower you might see at the circus. There are several tips you can learn from him.
First, not everyone is cut out to be swallow swords (or deep throat big dicks). Everyone's body is designed differently, and some people have a more intensive gag reflex than others. As much as you try, some of you simply won't be able to do it. Don't get upset, just accept it as a personal limitation. There are so many ways to excel in bed that you don't need to master them all.
Second, remember that sword-swallowers use rapiers, not broadswords. Meaning if you want to deep throat, you're going to have a lot more luck swallowing one that is thin. If you're trying to deep throat a dick as big as your wrist, you're going to have troubles. The same goes for the length of someone's dick. You're going to have a lot better chance of swallowing someone who is four inches rather than eight.
Third, one of the keys to deep throat is to get your neck at the correct angle. Meaning with your head tilted back. Whatever position you try to deep throat in, try to tilt your head back to this position.
Fourth, remember that half of deep throating is your partner's position. Kneeling in front of him while he stands is a great way to get your head tilted back. Taking the other extreme, it's difficult (although not impossible) to deep throat someone who is laying on his back. If your partner wants you to swallow him, make him work a little toward the goal by getting into a position that works for you.
Fifth, don't deep throat on a full stomach. That increases the gag reflex (and you'd hate to lose your lunch on him).
Sixth, try using a sore throat remedy that helps deaden the nerves in your throat. Some cough drops will have the same effect.
Finally, keep in mind that going all the way down isn't the objective of sex. You'll have some days that are better than others, and you'll find that some partners naturally slide down your throat. There isn't often a rhyme or reason as to why this happens, but enjoy it when it does. And if it doesn't? Remember that deep throat sessions aren't always the most pleasurable - you may be able to make your partner whimper without going all the way down.
First, not everyone is cut out to be swallow swords (or deep throat big dicks). Everyone's body is designed differently, and some people have a more intensive gag reflex than others. As much as you try, some of you simply won't be able to do it. Don't get upset, just accept it as a personal limitation. There are so many ways to excel in bed that you don't need to master them all.
Second, remember that sword-swallowers use rapiers, not broadswords. Meaning if you want to deep throat, you're going to have a lot more luck swallowing one that is thin. If you're trying to deep throat a dick as big as your wrist, you're going to have troubles. The same goes for the length of someone's dick. You're going to have a lot better chance of swallowing someone who is four inches rather than eight.
Third, one of the keys to deep throat is to get your neck at the correct angle. Meaning with your head tilted back. Whatever position you try to deep throat in, try to tilt your head back to this position.
Fourth, remember that half of deep throating is your partner's position. Kneeling in front of him while he stands is a great way to get your head tilted back. Taking the other extreme, it's difficult (although not impossible) to deep throat someone who is laying on his back. If your partner wants you to swallow him, make him work a little toward the goal by getting into a position that works for you.
Fifth, don't deep throat on a full stomach. That increases the gag reflex (and you'd hate to lose your lunch on him).
Sixth, try using a sore throat remedy that helps deaden the nerves in your throat. Some cough drops will have the same effect.
Finally, keep in mind that going all the way down isn't the objective of sex. You'll have some days that are better than others, and you'll find that some partners naturally slide down your throat. There isn't often a rhyme or reason as to why this happens, but enjoy it when it does. And if it doesn't? Remember that deep throat sessions aren't always the most pleasurable - you may be able to make your partner whimper without going all the way down.
Comment by Anonymous on January 21, 2008
Just doing my periodical checking out of your website and I saw the advice column discussion about deep throating without gagging, and I think I may have something to offer the discussion. I have a pretty fierce gag reaction, as I discovered years ago when I had braces on my teeth. Every time my orthodontist went to work on the far back molars I would begin gagging fiercely. His advice to me (and little did he know how I'd apply it later in life!) was to hum. It is apparently physically impossible to gag while humming. I worked for that purpose, and it works quite well for deep throating too.The obvious problem is that your partner might wonder what possessed you to hum while giving a blow job. My work around for that was to alter the sound from a "uuuuhhhh" to a "mmmmmmmm" (like they do in the movies), which has the added benefit of seeming like you're so into the act that you yourself are moaning!