What can I do to make my dick bigger?
January 19, 2008
I am cursed with a small dick. The entire gay culture seems to revolve around dick size. I have a very hard time meeting men because I am very self-conscious about my dick. You would never catch me naked at a gym; it's just too humiliating to go to one. My dick is about and inch long when soft, and maybe four-and-a-half inches when hard. To add insult to injury, my dick is not very big around either. Because of all this I have trouble even using public rest rooms for fear someone will notice I have no cock to speak of. I'm 44 years old and have dealt with this my whole adult life and don't think I can much longer. It's just so unfair. I don't want ten inches - I would be thrilled with six. Is there anything I can do?
Like it or not, you have just a tad less than the average-sized penis and there is little you can do about it. What you can do for yourself is not to get so upset about it. You are the one making your dick size into an issue, not the men you have been too insecure to meet. Your fear of using public restrooms and locker rooms is also completely unwarranted and in your head. There are guys with much smaller dicks than yours that use urinals without a second thought.
You could spend thousands of dollars with a surgeon, but you are risking major complications and will probably not be happy with the result. You would be much better off using the money on a sex therapist, although even a counselor can only help you accept what you already have. You may do far better to spend some of that money on a good escort who can help you build a sense of esteem about how your dick is right now.
If I seem unsupportive of your concerns, understand that I read questions about dick size from people that are far more upset than you are. These are some of the saddest questions I read because they are so unnecessary. Porn glamorizes large dicks in a way that is totally unhealthy. One of my best clients has an extremely thick eight-inch dick that he would trade with yours in an instant. To him, the ability to make love without hurting his partners is far more valuable than impressing strangers in a restroom.
You could spend thousands of dollars with a surgeon, but you are risking major complications and will probably not be happy with the result. You would be much better off using the money on a sex therapist, although even a counselor can only help you accept what you already have. You may do far better to spend some of that money on a good escort who can help you build a sense of esteem about how your dick is right now.
If I seem unsupportive of your concerns, understand that I read questions about dick size from people that are far more upset than you are. These are some of the saddest questions I read because they are so unnecessary. Porn glamorizes large dicks in a way that is totally unhealthy. One of my best clients has an extremely thick eight-inch dick that he would trade with yours in an instant. To him, the ability to make love without hurting his partners is far more valuable than impressing strangers in a restroom.
Comment by pumper on January 23, 2008
I've added the similar comments in every post about small dicks... try penis pumping. If you are unhappy about the size of your cock, there is something you can do about it. It ACTUALLY works although results are temporary for most guys. But you can make your dick hang longer and MUCH thicker for about a day after a pumping session. And with repeated pumping sessions, your cock may actually show some more permanent gains.I'm very surprised that more men don't know about penis pumping. I find it fun and erotic and the results I get make the time I spend pumping totally worth it. Google "penis pumping" and have a look for yourself.