Should I play with a guy with a girlfriend?

January 21, 2008
Potential Hussy I met this guy online a while back, and we have enjoyed many jack-off sessions through instant messaging. He told me that I make him cum really hard when I talk dirty to him. Anyway, he just told me the last time we jacked off that he was taking a business trip to an area close to where I live and he wants me to meet him in his hotel room for sex. He told me once before that he had a girlfriend and that they had an "alternative" relationship. I thought that meant that they were okay with seeing other people, but I recently found out that she never knew that he was fucking other women and men. I would love to fuck him, but I don't know if I should now that I know that his girlfriend doesn't know that he is bi and is fucking other people. What do you think I should do?—Anonymous
I think that's a decision that every person has to make based on his own beliefs. There will be many that disagree with your advice no matter whether I say "yea" or "nay" to meeting him. I know some men that wouldn't think twice about hopping into bed with such a person. There are also guys that wouldn't be caught dead playing with a married or involved person. Whether you should or should not screw around with him is up to you. Certainly though it isn't terribly honorable of him to be cheating on her, but whether you let that influence your decision is a matter for you to decide.—Aaron Lawrence

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