Does no phone call in two weeks mean he's not interested?

January 21, 2008
I met a guy though the Internet and we agreed to meet for coffee. We hit it off really well and set up a date. We met at his place and eventually jumped in bed. He is 11 years younger than me (47) he is 36. He is a really nice guy, great swimmers build and a nice, slim cock. Sex was great, but he freaked out when he saw my cockring and has not gotten over it. He said he would get back to me about more dates, but he didn't. He did get back to me via e-mail and said friendship for a drink and conversation would be great but the sex would have to set on the back burner. He hasn't called in two weeks. Should I take this as a brush-off?—Anonymous
Yup, sounds like he enjoyed the sex but didn't want to continue. Cockrings are very tame sex toys, but some people still can't help but to think they're wild, kinky things. He may fall into that category, or perhaps he didn't want to have sex for some other reason totally unrelated to the incident. Either way, he's made it clear he isn't interested in continuing to have sex, and probably doesn't want to continue the friendship either. Shrug it off as a learning experience and move on.—Aaron Lawrence

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