Should I try to have sex with a guy?
January 21, 2008
I'm a married white male in my late 40's who in the last several years has yearned to suck a cock. Never having done so, the urge grows stronger and stronger as time passes but I've never connected with anyone. Somehow the timing has never been right. I've always been aggressive with women but in the last few years, when I fantasize about servicing men (and I practice a lot with dildos), being in touch with my submissive side is extremely erotic and exciting to me. Having discovered that part of my nature, I roam the web (particularly the Outpersonals page) looking for my dominant counterpart, but I'm becoming very frustrated. I've met several perfect matches and, upon e-mailing them enthusiastically, I get no response. Now I realize that you can't answer for any particular individuals but, my gosh, what is going on here, where's the beef? I mean am I missing something?
Congrats on making the decision to suck someone's cock. It can be a lot of fun to do so. As a married man, just remember that you have an obligation to place safe about it. Fortunately doing so can be hot, as I think you're going to find it.
'Course you have to find someone first! If the Outpersonals pages aren't working for you, try looking somewhere else. Cruisingforsex.com has sex-related personal ads that may appeal to you, as do many other websites. You may find the chat rooms on some systems (such as America Online) to work for you as well. There are a lot of horny dominant guys out there who would love for a "virgin" man like you to service them. My personal favorite place to cruise is Manhunt, an online hook-up site. You'll find any number of married guys on there as well.
Just remember not to, pardon the expression, bite off more than you can chew. Not having sucked a guy's cock before, you'll find that it is a bit different than sucking on a dildo. If you have someone ramming their cock down your throat dominantly, it may be a lot more difficult to get the hang of it. You may want to consider getting some experience sucking dick, even if it's not quite as dominant as you prefer. Once you get the hang of it, you'll find you are much better able to handle someone that wants to face-fuck you.
'Course you have to find someone first! If the Outpersonals pages aren't working for you, try looking somewhere else. Cruisingforsex.com has sex-related personal ads that may appeal to you, as do many other websites. You may find the chat rooms on some systems (such as America Online) to work for you as well. There are a lot of horny dominant guys out there who would love for a "virgin" man like you to service them. My personal favorite place to cruise is Manhunt, an online hook-up site. You'll find any number of married guys on there as well.
Just remember not to, pardon the expression, bite off more than you can chew. Not having sucked a guy's cock before, you'll find that it is a bit different than sucking on a dildo. If you have someone ramming their cock down your throat dominantly, it may be a lot more difficult to get the hang of it. You may want to consider getting some experience sucking dick, even if it's not quite as dominant as you prefer. Once you get the hang of it, you'll find you are much better able to handle someone that wants to face-fuck you.
