Should I stop escorting to be with my married boyfriend?
January 21, 2008
My boyfriend is a bisexual man. He cares for me so much, he is very cute, and I love him very much. He sends me money when I need it, flowers on my birthday, and medicine when I am sick. He hates when I escort, but he says he understands. Unfortunately, he is married. Should I dump him or shall I try to get him for myself? Or should I accept him being married? I love him so much!
Pardon my saying so, but you've got a serious winner of a relationship. He's a married guy who goes home to his wife at night, and you're sleeping with him partially for the money. Call me a Dr. Laura, but this does not sound good. At least not if you want to have any sort of traditional-style relationship.
You asked me what you should do, but I can't answer that for you. What you should do depends on your priorities and your ethics. Your relationship is clearly headed nowhere, but as long as you don't care about that and your ethics permit you to have an extended relationship with a married man, by all means continue. But if you want anything resembling commitment, you're going to have to give him an ultimatum of "you or her" sometime soon. Just don't be surprised when he gives you the same choice between the relationship and your escorting.
You asked me what you should do, but I can't answer that for you. What you should do depends on your priorities and your ethics. Your relationship is clearly headed nowhere, but as long as you don't care about that and your ethics permit you to have an extended relationship with a married man, by all means continue. But if you want anything resembling commitment, you're going to have to give him an ultimatum of "you or her" sometime soon. Just don't be surprised when he gives you the same choice between the relationship and your escorting.
