What is reasonable to expect during a night with an escort?
January 20, 2008
I have been with a few escorts but only for an hour or two. I have recently scheduled an overnight appointment with an escort, and have a question regarding expectations. I would really enjoy waking up in the morning next to this gorgeous hunk and having sex (after I brush my teeth). Is it expecting too much to have sex in the evening and again in the morning before we part company? I realize he probably has appointments for the day so I would not expect him to cum in the morning. We have discussed the plans for our meeting, but I have been reluctant to ask about this. Maybe I should just wait and see what happens?
Overnight appointments are a great way for the escort and client to have a lot of sex together in a way that does not require that they monitor the time. The two can do a late dinner together, and retire back to the bedroom in time for a long evening of sexual frolicking and playing. When the sun rises in the morning they can continue their pleasures until they stop for breakfast and eventually say their goodbyes.
In general, this works extremely well. As the first client wrote, he wanted to have sex for a while in the evening, and then a bit more in the morning. That's absolutely reasonable and isn't a problem in the slightest. In fact, overnight appointments usually run into troubles only in one of two ways. The first is when a client exhausts the escort by keeping him awake having sex until extremely late at night. It's fine to have sex until midnight or 2am, but if you're still going strong at 5am, chances are your escort has been dying for sleep for several hours. Fortunately that problem is relatively rare.
The second problem is the lesser of the two, but is by far the more common one. It is when the client wakes up early in the morning and wants to jump on the escort while he is asleep. This is often a particular problem for full-time escorts, since they are used to keeping late nights and sleeping in during the morning. While most escorts are willing to have sex with their client early in the morning, care should be taken to awaken them slowly and gently. Sticking a dick in their mouth while the escort is snoring is NOT considered polite.
If you wake up before your escort and want to have sex, you may want to consider letting him sleep in for a few minutes longer. Often your movement of being awake will cause him to naturally wake up on his own. He will be a much better lover if that happens. Alternately, open up the shades to allow more light into the room, and then wake up the escort by slowly caressing him and touching him for a while. And keep in mind he may be in a very deep sleep when you want to have sex. It will take him several minutes for the oxygen levels in his brain to return to normal. For that few minutes, the escort can't help being groggy, grumpy, or unresponsive. Keep in mind too that particularly low-priced escorts, such as hustlers or those escorts that work from European brothels, are being paid relatively little for their services. As such, the client should expect less accommodation to his needs and agendas.
Of course, ultimately the entire schedule of sex is up between the individual client and escort. So when in doubt, why not bring the issue up in advance? Escorts in countries where prostitution is illegal may not want to use the word "sex," but will understand exactly what you mean if you suggest in advance you want a certain amount of "playtime" in the evening and the morning.
In general, this works extremely well. As the first client wrote, he wanted to have sex for a while in the evening, and then a bit more in the morning. That's absolutely reasonable and isn't a problem in the slightest. In fact, overnight appointments usually run into troubles only in one of two ways. The first is when a client exhausts the escort by keeping him awake having sex until extremely late at night. It's fine to have sex until midnight or 2am, but if you're still going strong at 5am, chances are your escort has been dying for sleep for several hours. Fortunately that problem is relatively rare.
The second problem is the lesser of the two, but is by far the more common one. It is when the client wakes up early in the morning and wants to jump on the escort while he is asleep. This is often a particular problem for full-time escorts, since they are used to keeping late nights and sleeping in during the morning. While most escorts are willing to have sex with their client early in the morning, care should be taken to awaken them slowly and gently. Sticking a dick in their mouth while the escort is snoring is NOT considered polite.
If you wake up before your escort and want to have sex, you may want to consider letting him sleep in for a few minutes longer. Often your movement of being awake will cause him to naturally wake up on his own. He will be a much better lover if that happens. Alternately, open up the shades to allow more light into the room, and then wake up the escort by slowly caressing him and touching him for a while. And keep in mind he may be in a very deep sleep when you want to have sex. It will take him several minutes for the oxygen levels in his brain to return to normal. For that few minutes, the escort can't help being groggy, grumpy, or unresponsive. Keep in mind too that particularly low-priced escorts, such as hustlers or those escorts that work from European brothels, are being paid relatively little for their services. As such, the client should expect less accommodation to his needs and agendas.
Of course, ultimately the entire schedule of sex is up between the individual client and escort. So when in doubt, why not bring the issue up in advance? Escorts in countries where prostitution is illegal may not want to use the word "sex," but will understand exactly what you mean if you suggest in advance you want a certain amount of "playtime" in the evening and the morning.
