How can I make my boyfriend's first experience special?
January 20, 2008
I am 16 year bisexual closeted guy living in Mexico. I recently met a wonderful guy, and now we are falling in love. He is 23 and in the closet too, so we are discreet about our relationship. We already have a great idea so he can meet my parents without making them suspicious so we can see each other more often. The problem is that he is still a virgin and I have had sex about forty times. I want it to be special, so I was wondering if you could give me some advice to make his first night. I want it to be the best of his entire life without any embarrassing or painful moments for either one of us.
Whoa there! Before you have sex, you two need to have a little talk. According to ageofconsent.com, the age of consent in Mexico is 18 for gay couples. That means your boyfriend is risking arrest and jail time if you two have sex. You may have a history of being sexually active, but one of the greatest gifts you may want to give him is to wait until you can legally play. You'd hate for him to wind up in jail because you just had to get your rocks off.
Whenever you decide to play, it won't be hard to make it a special encounter. Here's one idea. Take a day when the two of you can spend time together without anyone interrupting you. Spend the day doing things that the two of you enjoy. Long walks, playing video games, shopping, having him help you study for school, or whatever you two do that brings you closer together. If you have a kitchen available, cook dinner together rather than going out. It may seem silly, but the teamwork involved in making a candlelight dinner together will bring you even closer. Don't eat too much though, as you don't want to be totally full when it comes time to play. And don't forget to wash the dishes first, you're not going to want to do that later on too, and you'd hate for your folks to find everything.
Once everything is set, fill the tub with lots of hot water. Put in some bubble soap so you can take a bubblebath. Light a few candles for ambiance. Slowly take off your clothes and let him see what you look like. Climb in the tub, and then invite him to take off his clothes and join you. Soak in the hot water and spend some time touching each others' bodies. By the time you two start having sex you're going to be so hot for each other that it will be the most special night of his (and your) life.
Whenever you decide to play, it won't be hard to make it a special encounter. Here's one idea. Take a day when the two of you can spend time together without anyone interrupting you. Spend the day doing things that the two of you enjoy. Long walks, playing video games, shopping, having him help you study for school, or whatever you two do that brings you closer together. If you have a kitchen available, cook dinner together rather than going out. It may seem silly, but the teamwork involved in making a candlelight dinner together will bring you even closer. Don't eat too much though, as you don't want to be totally full when it comes time to play. And don't forget to wash the dishes first, you're not going to want to do that later on too, and you'd hate for your folks to find everything.
Once everything is set, fill the tub with lots of hot water. Put in some bubble soap so you can take a bubblebath. Light a few candles for ambiance. Slowly take off your clothes and let him see what you look like. Climb in the tub, and then invite him to take off his clothes and join you. Soak in the hot water and spend some time touching each others' bodies. By the time you two start having sex you're going to be so hot for each other that it will be the most special night of his (and your) life.
