Is rimming a basic service for an escort?

January 20, 2008
I enjoy all aspects of sex, but my absolutely favorite is to rim and be rimmed. I would rather cum by jacking off while my ass is being eaten. Do I just up front ask an escort if he will provide that service. Is rimming considered above and beyond the call of duty?—Anonymous
By all means you should feel free to bring up your love for rimming with escorts that interest you. Keep in mind though that prostitution is illegal, so many escorts will not discuss sexual behavior in advance. You can still mention offhandedly what you like, however, understand that he will get the message. If he isn't into rimming and is unwilling to provide you that service, he will decline to work for you.

You should also know that rimming with an escort, as with any partner, is far less pleasant if your ass is not immaculately clean. Before you see the escort you should take a shower and wash your ass thoroughly, both on the outside and inside by sliding a soaped-up finger inside yourself. And although it may seem obvious, many people forget that if you find yourself using the toilet anytime after you shower, you will need to wash yourself again. A good rule of thumb is to give yourself a quick washing "down there" just before you have sex in any case.

Either way, I hope you find lots of guys willing to help you out with your fantasy. I love to rim my clients, but reserve the right not to if they are not 100% hygienic. If you have any trouble finding someone to help you out, you can always set things up with me. I'm always in the mood for a hot session of buttmunching.—Aaron Lawrence

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