Do escorts show a lot of affection?
January 20, 2008
Would you talk a little bit about affection, both verbal and physical I've never hired an escort because I am only interested in having sex with someone I appreciate for their head and heart first, and their body second. As tempting as the prospect of sex with an attractive escort can be, what I really need is to be held. I'm not talking about an occasional hug. I'm talking about serious, quiet and gently cuddling for a couple of hours. Then, maybe, some sex followed by more sensitive cuddling. I want to lay with my head on his chest or shoulder and have him wrap his arms around me and caress me. I'd like to be able to do the same for him. I'm an intuitive listener and I would like to encourage him to talk to me about whatever it is that's important to him. I want him to tell me he loves being with me and to make me believe it.
Given the above, what kinds of questions should I ask or how should I present my desires when setting up an appointment? I have no problem asking for what I want, but I would simply prefer to do as little asking as possible. Any thoughts or suggestions you can share will be greatly appreciated.
Given the above, what kinds of questions should I ask or how should I present my desires when setting up an appointment? I have no problem asking for what I want, but I would simply prefer to do as little asking as possible. Any thoughts or suggestions you can share will be greatly appreciated.
I love your letter. You begin by explaining how an escort can’t provide you with what you want, but end by asking how to set up an appointment. Methinks you have already made up your mind to start paying by the hour, and your letter is just asking how you can have the sort of experience that you desire. So let my response start by disagreeing that an escort is a body more than a mind and a soul. Some are, certainly. But there are also some very good escorts that sound exactly like what you are looking for.
A skilled escort is someone that is able to meet the needs of the client, ideally before the client even realizes they exist. You have identified your needs quite clearly: to be held, to affectionately cuddle, to listen and be listened to, and to make love in a warm and responsive fashion. Although you may not realize it, you are far from being unique in those regards. Many clients are looking for experiences just like the one you described. And fortunately for you, many escorts are able to provide it.
When setting up an appointment, it is always a good idea to make your desires and expectations clear. Not because you are trying to take power over the relationship, but because an escort needs to understand your desires in order to meet them. A skilled escorts can figure your needs out when you meet, but you are more likely to have the experience you desire if you state them in advance. It is not a bad idea to discuss what you like when you first meet, too. Escorts often keep few or no notes on their clients’ desires in an effort to maintain privacy. As a result they often have difficulty remembering all of their conversations leading up to the appointment.
The best advice I can offer you for finding a warm and affectionate escort is to go on the web and start looking for an escort who naturally prefers the sort of encounter that you desire. Many of the best escorts have websites that will give you a strong impression about what they are like. If you search enough you should be able to find one that you believe will be an ideal match for you.
A skilled escort is someone that is able to meet the needs of the client, ideally before the client even realizes they exist. You have identified your needs quite clearly: to be held, to affectionately cuddle, to listen and be listened to, and to make love in a warm and responsive fashion. Although you may not realize it, you are far from being unique in those regards. Many clients are looking for experiences just like the one you described. And fortunately for you, many escorts are able to provide it.
When setting up an appointment, it is always a good idea to make your desires and expectations clear. Not because you are trying to take power over the relationship, but because an escort needs to understand your desires in order to meet them. A skilled escorts can figure your needs out when you meet, but you are more likely to have the experience you desire if you state them in advance. It is not a bad idea to discuss what you like when you first meet, too. Escorts often keep few or no notes on their clients’ desires in an effort to maintain privacy. As a result they often have difficulty remembering all of their conversations leading up to the appointment.
The best advice I can offer you for finding a warm and affectionate escort is to go on the web and start looking for an escort who naturally prefers the sort of encounter that you desire. Many of the best escorts have websites that will give you a strong impression about what they are like. If you search enough you should be able to find one that you believe will be an ideal match for you.
